so most of ye at this stage already know that I was on holidays for about two weeks from work, this time made me think ALOT, about EVERYTHING. Friendships, family, partners, drama's etc etc. Suddenly something clicked, I know this sounds so cliche but when I started to think, clearing my space from toxic negative people made my life so much more positive.
So just like my new year blues blog, I'm here with a blog about how to keep a clear calm head filled with positive thoughts :)
Step one: Life is too short to argue, fall out or even have fights with people. Someones behavior or actions may be a mistake but if they do it multiple times it then becomes something within their character and you are better off without them :)
I have learned the hard way, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Don't waste your time, energy, emotions on someone who is not worth your own :)
Step two: consider who means the most to you, evaluating friendships isn't illegal? Why am I still friends with someone I dislike on Facebook? get them out of your life, the sooner you get rid of them the sooner you will have a clearer happier mind :)
step three: let bygones be bygones :) holding grudges is not something i do, If I ever have a fight or a tiff without someone, i will always leave it to settle, if I feel sorry Ill apologize and even if that doesn't happen I just leave it to bubble over. No point wasting your energy and time on someone who isn't worth it is there?
Step four: You are the only one who can control your positivity! I've learnt this the hard way, only you and you only can control this, turning to alcohol, food, friends, bitching only wastes energy and you feel worse for it after!
Step five: think about the things you are doing to yourself, until you are 100% happy with yourself, then and only then will you be happy with things around you. Don't put yourself in situations, socialize or even waste energy on things that are toxic or negative for you :)
This is a bit of an odd blog, comment any suggestions about how you did this!
Happiness, Kind wishes :)
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